Persistence: 32 Years of Continuous Sobriety

February 23, 2022
Logo reading, 32 years

“I’m celebrating 32 years of sobriety!”

Carol Weis

Author Carol WeisI recently did an interview where they asked what character traits I had transferred from my addiction into my current career as a writer and author. Two of those traits are persistence and risk-taking.

Persistence helped me push through the 12 years after I started writing my children’s book to the day it was published — 16 years after I got sober. Persistence also kept me drinking, for 12 shame-filled years after I knew I had a problem, making it seem like a negative trait while I was active.

I also persisted in chasing men back then, which only made me look desperate and needy. Childhood trauma can do that to a person. I persisted in your typical risky behaviors as well, like driving while intoxicated or going home with strangers I’d met at bars (even hitchhiking at 2:00 a.m. to get to one of them 20 miles away).

My risk-taking was dangerous back then, but when I got sober and started writing, it allowed me to own my voice and create a style. For someone who barely made it through college, creative writing felt like a tremendous risk.

But I had so many feelings I needed to process, the words seemed to fly from my fingertips onto the page. And I didn’t let rejection of my work stop me. I persisted, and as a result, I’ve gotten numerous essays published, plus a memoir about my journey to sobriety, which includes lots of my risk-taking stories, along with how I recovered and healed.

And of course, my 32 years of continuous sobriety is a result of my persistence.

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